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Melissa Tsui

Disappearing Act - Serving Divorce Papers on a Missing Estranged Spouse

Updated: Jul 4, 2023


serving divorce papers on missing spouse

Have you been separated from your married spouse for quite some time and have lost touch but now want to get divorced?


First, you should read our lengthy detailed post - Step by Step Simple Guide Divorce here: https://www.tsuilawyers.com/post/step-by-step-simple-guide-divorce


If you have completed a Joint Application for Divorce, you are not required to effect service on the other party.


If you have completed a Sole Application for Divorce but cannot locate your estranged spouse, you will need to consider whether you can serve the divorce documents on your estranged spouse.


You should consider undertaking the following attempts to contact your estranged spouse to obtain their residential address, work address, or any other address for service:

  • Call, text, or email them directly

  • Contact them directly on social media (i.e. Facebook Messenger, Instagram messages, LinkedIn messages, etc)

  • Reach out to mutual friends or extended family members

Normally, you are required to arrange for personal service of the divorce documents on the other party. However, if you have complied with the above attempts and your estranged spouse still refuses to provide you with their address for service, only then you should consider seeking an order for dispensation of service or substituted service. You will need to file an Application in a Proceeding seeking substituted service or dispensation of service and your supporting affidavit.


Substituted Service is when the Judicial Registrar has allowed you to effect service on a third party who will bring it to the attention of the other party.


Dispensation of Service is when the Judicial Registrar has waived the requirement to effect service of the divorce documents.


You will be required to file a supporting affidavit detailing all your attempts of service. The affidavit should include the following points:

  • Your attempts in locating the other party

  • Details of your last interaction with the other party

  • The other party's last known contact details (residential and work address)

  • Your attempts in reaching out to friends, family members and/or colleagues

  • Details of any child support arrangements

  • Details of any joint assets and/or liabilities

  • Details of any overseas residence or travel of the other party

  • Responses (if any) from the other party

  • Costs in attempting to contact the other party


At the divorce hearing, the Judicial Registrar will review and assess whether to grant your orders (substitute service or dispensation of service).


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